Oh Ladies, why oh why oh why do we do it to ourselves!?! I don't care what your race, age, marital status or religion. At some point, wether you admit it or not we have all fallen for at least one "bad boy".
You know the type of man, the one who will never settle down, who is actually a really nice guy but only to his friends, never to the women in his life! The guys who make it plainly obvious that they are only interested in one thing, or the guys who tell you they love you and then go park their car in someone elses garage!
We know we shouldn't go near these guys, we know it will end in tears...usually ours! BUT WE STILL DO IT!!
Is it because we feel we can change them? Or because we need adventure and attention..no matter what kind! Or is it because by being with these kind of men, it in turn makes us feel slightly bad and sexy? Be honest with yourself now girls. I'll be honest, the thought of being a bad guys girl is a turn on, of course it is! "Oh he's mean, he does all these bad things but it's me he wants". Secretly that's how we think. And usually we end up falling for them big time and being heart broken! But why? We knew what they were like in the beginning. Women LOVE the idea of being with a bad man, even the married, happily married women, we all want or have wanted this at some point. Seriously are we insane! Nope, not insane it's just the pure adrenaline rush we get from it! It makes us feel attractive, rebelious, dangerous, sexy and all the things we women have trouble feeling on a normal day to day basis. But you're with a guy who's got a reputation, and you're carrying a dirty little secret around that makes you feel all these things! TURN ON!!!
There's nothing wrong with this, in most cases it can be good for you...as long as you don't fall for them. You know they have no intention of being with you long term, they just want some fun, so don't dive in with both feet, just dip your toe and test the water!
In part 2...Why are men BAD?!? "Why do they get off on going with woman after woman? Never having an emotional connection? Well I have my own ideas on that too!!